answered about 16 months ago by Joey
I've been in Hanoi for a month now with 7 month old twins. During summer holidays most of these things take a break as this is the season for moving or travelling.
As for Mother's Groups and things like that. HIWC were fantastic with answering my questions before I arrived, unfortunately I haven't met any of the women and have now started work.
http://www.hanoi-iwc.com/
There are some websites like eBay all in Vietnamese where you can buy cots and whitegoods but you'll need to know someone who can read Vietnamese. Here is a link that will at least get you into the site but just flip through
http://www.goodsmart.com.vn/osc/index.php?cPath=30
But once you are here things fall into place very quickly and a lot of accommodation comes fully furnished.
Again HIWC will be willing and able to answer more specific questions.