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Am I ever gonna find good friends or good company, people that really be there for me and let me be there for them ever again? Or is it impossible in Hanoi? Somehow, right now, for me everything is just so superficial! And I guess I could be in the middle of the crowd and yet, still feel so isolated!! My social life is kinda suck!!! Need help!
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answered about 4 months ago by Ouriel
Aww ... poor you! I guess cos most people here are just for a short time and move on so they are not looking for solid, long term friendships. I'm just speculating. It is easy to get lonely here but keep looking and I'm sure the perfect friend will come along! ;)
answered about 4 months ago by JoGravel
Your right!!!, sometimes here, im feeling so lonely, so lonely, I got nobody..
answered about 4 months ago by newcham
hello,hope things work out for you..cheers,Marc
answered about 4 months ago by noanoa76
It's an age/status/nationality/seriousness thing.. Best thing to do is spend some good quality time with yourself.. and there is plenty to do alone in the city. Or if you are Vietnamese, am sure you can find a nice man to go out with...
answered about 4 months ago by findaway
Just to confirm one thing "It's not down to the fact who I'm hanging around with, it's the superfical thing that bothers me (no matter who I'm with-no matter where they come from- Vietnamese, or non-Vietnamese, lol)!! But never mind, life is good, surely I cant have everything I want!!! But again I have everything I need, so on a positive note, i'm young, fun, intelectual minded, successful and hot, plenty of people to hang out with. Hence, Life is good!:)
answered about 4 months ago by arctictis
With all due respect honey, you describe yourself in your profile as "gorgeous, sexy, hot" and yet complain of superficiality? Also being both "energetic" and "super laid back" is something of an anomaly no?
With all due respect back to ARCTICTIS, Whats wrong with feeling confident in my own skin?!! Which I'm sure most of the people out there got no idea about. Only when people understand about themselves and truly have the connection with their innerself and happy with their own look, thats when they are truly in touch with themselves. You wouldnt believe that the people run around for plastic surgery because they dont believe that they are good-looking enough is DEEPLY IN TOUCH WITH HER INNERSELF right. Cos if you are, gosh, do get a life. Or at least read some book about SELF-DEVELOPMENT. Energetic and super laid back is something of an anormally no? Gosh, you are really sad! But hey, i respect your view! Whatever you wanna believe is entirely your decision. To top it up, we were born not to be entirely one thing or other. Like for sure, and fingercrossed that you understand that we werent born to be entirely energetic 24/7 and super laid back 24/7. Cos if thats how it supposed to be, then PLEASE, give me that life. UNFORTUNATELY, we were born in such a way that makes us capable of being lots of things (like Energetic, urm, i dunno, what about, doing sports and coming up with ideas all the time, and ready for everything that may come at us, but also super laid back when it comes to progression and choices of places goin out, what to it, forgiving others,...etc. Well I do hope that you would be able to open your mind a little bit more. All one can do is HOPE!!!
answered about 4 months ago by majortio
YES, yes... we are all looking for our findaway..whether is the doors to love, friendship or perception...superficial things are all over...its a shame...our true friends should be our gods and vica versa...nobody can answer who he/she is...let it be...we all live in Hanoi but some of us can see the stars
answered about 4 months ago by nammo
to noanoa76 Just out of curiosity: so if you're not Vietnamese you can't find a nice man to go out with LOL? Please tell me more ...
answered about 4 months ago by minhlenoir
just for fun: "if A then B" is not equal to " if not A then not B", sir! I think noanoa76 meant that there were alot of Vnmese, and it is easier for a Vn to find a Vn, cuz at least, there were no lang.barriers
answered about 3 months ago by lukeo
hello findaway, i would be happy to catch up for a drink or coffee, i got no firends here either being so new. find me at jo jos bar hai ba trung. lukes the name, good country boy from australia. always welcome lukeo
answered about 2 months ago by Candide
Dear findaway I empathise with your problem completely. It is often very hard to find deep connections in a hectic and impersonal city. It is also difficult and brave to expose such feelings in a public forum. I hope you can stay positive and keep looking and as others have said things often turn around when you least expect them to. With regard to anyone who has been so rude as mock you here please don't take them as representative. As someone once said, ‘the more educated a man is generally, the more he is an emotional boor.’ But don't let such people discourage you. And please don’t feel you need to defend your profile sketch of yourself against such pedants – what you have said is perfectly reasonable. In the words of Oscar Wilde, the crown prince of contradiction – “Consistency is the last refuge of the unimaginative.” Be proud of your inconsistencies, how boring life would be without them. Pax, Candide
answered about 2 months ago by findaway
Thanks Candide...
